Tuesday, February 17, 2015

How Some (African) Guys Handle Rejection





In this one, Kemi discusses horrible ways guys handle rejection. It's not like I want to be dissing guys all the time o.

1. See a girl you like at church, she "friendzones" you, then you start spreading lies about her. She’s gay. She has a spiritual husband. Really???

2. Dissing the girl on social media/internet. Posting her nude pics.

3. Asking for gifts back -- gifts you gave her during the relationship while the love was hot.

4. Planning revenge. How can I get back at her? How can I teach her a lesson?

5. Giving stupid reasons why she should still date you.

What you need to do is ignore. The person rejected you or dumped you. Guess what? Ignoring her is the best revenge. Acknowledging a problem gives it credibility, so don't acknowledge.

Also, learn from your rejections and improve yourself. If you are aware of your mistakes that led to you being rejected, improve your skills and learn to be better. Climb out of rejection like a champion!

2 comments:

  1. Hi Kemi,

    Came over from SDK's page. Keep the flag flying!!

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    1. Hi @calabar gal! thank you so much for all your encouraging comments.

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